The Moon by house position signifies your attachments and the places where you feel most comfortable. The natal chart houses represent specific parts of your life, such as home and family, relationships, your attitudes to the material world, your career or group affiliations etc., yet the activities of the Moon’s house are often where you feel the most emotionally vulnerable. Sometimes the Moon’s ‘comfort zone’ is not the most comfortable place to be; we attach to whatever is found in the Moon’s house, regardless of whether that attachment is healthy or otherwise. A dominant Moon may show a particular attachment to home or homeland.
You are drawn to those areas symbolised by the Moon, and to the people, activities and places that resonate with the symbolism of your lunar placement. Habits are easily formed in the Moon’s house and they may be hard to change, as the Moon pulls us towards anything that connects us to the past – from child-like behaviours to studying the history of your family or your homeland. The Moon also represents your unconscious actions, your changes of mood and how you take care 0f your emotional and physical needs. Lunar instincts are your most basic and primitive survival mechanisms. Use them well.
Moon Keywords
Ancestry, Attachment, Belonging, Comfort Zone, Comfort Eating, Cooking, Digestion, Digestive System, Emotional Wellbeing, Emotional Responses, Family, Feelings, Females, Feminine, Food, Gut Feelings, Habits, Heritage, Home, Id, Instincts, Memories, Mirrors, Moods, Mother, Nourishment, Nurture, Nurses, Passivity, Past, Receptivity. Reflectivity, Reflections, Roots, Safety, Self-care, Security, Silver, Stomach, Tides, Womb.
Moon in the First House
A first house Moon makes you an emotional person, as you cannot disguise your feelings. You approach life from a feeling perspective; you are intuitive and imaginative – though sometimes thise characteristics may be overdone and you can be oversensitive or overemotional. Appearing moody, clingy or needy may be an issue for you – and those you are close to. The Moon here makes you ‘touchy’ or argumentative – and that may take people by surprise, as they are often drawn to you because of your apparent caring and compassionate nature. Your nurturing instinct is strong and self-care may be a priority for you.
With the Moon in the first house, you act on your feelings rather than cool analysis or reason and you may appear irrational at times. People or situations often ‘get’ to you – and you respond according to the nature of your moon sign. You are reactive, easily emotionally aroused and you may be easily hurt. This can be a shy, private or defensive lunar placement. You are instinctively maternal or nurturing; your mother may be a significant influence on your life. There may be a strong resemblance between you – either physically or in your behaviour, mannerisms and habits. The Moon, in this house, adds passivity to your persona. Passive aggression may be an issue
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Moon in the Second House
The Moon in the second house is associated with an attachment to the material world. Feelings of material security are important to you and you will feel uncomfortable if you feel your material wellbeing is threatened in any way. It’s important for you to know that your finances are in good order and you have enough material resources to meet your needs. This placement can turn you into a hoarder as the second house is associated with ‘ownership’ and you’re most comfortable when you own the things that you value. home or real estate ownership, or collecting antiques, satisfies this lunar need.
You gravitate towards things that are valuable, but you take comfort from your value system. You are instinctively drawn to those things that align with your values. However, you may need validation or affirmation that your values are the right values.or your actions are acceptable. The object is to create stability – and that’s essential for your emotional wellbeing. Like the Moon in the fourth house, this is a nurturing placement oriented towards cooking and caretaking of all kinds, but the motivation is often to control. Family and friends may become possessions – though your generosity and supportiveness may offset that.
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Moon in the Third House
The Moon in the third house is emotionally curious; your comfort zone is the world of communication and information, so you may feel emotionally distressed if you’re ‘out of the loop’. Boredom is something you cannot tolerate and you need to be mentally stimulated to be emotionally satisfied. You may have a preference for historical literature or studying history – or any intellectual enquiry that involves the past – genealogy (family history) or architectural history could satisfy this lunar urge. Sharing that knowledge is an act of emotional generosity; you may be comfortable in a teaching role or any other communicative environment.
You are likely to be sensitive to words and other forms of communication – especially that which is unspoken; you are an intuitive communicator and you absorb information from your environment. This can be a shy lunar placement; some of you may be reticent about speaking in public or you prefer your communications to be private. You may be prone to changing your mind and your emotions influence your thinking – your opinions are likely to be subjectively based and this can make you seem impervious to reason. Emotional intelligence is a real gift with this lunar placement – what you lack in objectivity, you make up for in sensitivity.
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Moon in the Fourth House
The Moon is most at home in this house, the place it rules. This is the lunar placement associated with deep attachments to home, family and homeland. You are most comfortable in the house that emphasises your roots. To be ‘rooted’ is essential for your emotional wellbeing and your gravitate towards people and places that stimulate a feeling of belonging or familiarity. The Moon in this house suggests you ‘collect’ in a broad sense; you may amass collections of objects for sentimental reasons – because they remind you of your family or your childhood. You may collect people who you regard as being as close to you as family.
This is an intensely nurturing position for the Moon, but it’s also a dependent one. Lunar traits are powerful when the Moon is in this house; you are likely to be reserved with your emotions, but it also shows you are needy or ‘clingy’ at times. You tend to act in response to your powerful feelings rather than from a more rational basis. There is a deep well of kindness in those with this placement, particularly towards those who need looking after. Skills such as cooking, gardening, childcare – and caretaking in general – are often emphasised. However, you may be oversensitive, overemotional or emotionally demanding when stressed.
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Moon in the Fifth House
The fifth house Moon is a playful Moon, It’s a dramatic and emotionally expressive placement, largely because you have the enthusiastic emotional make-up of a child. That’s not to say you’re emotionally immature – though that may be a risk with this lunar placement. You are emotionally open, honest and accessible – and you obtain emotional validation by sharing your inner happiness with others. The urge to give people pleasure, make them laugh or entertain is a form of caretaking – and of self-care. This is a giving lunar placement that nurtures by encouragement; early years teaching, or any career that involves children or creativity, will be deeply satisfying.
The fifth house Moon is emotionally demonstrative, but you may have issues with holding your emotions in check. You may be easily upset if someone doesn’t respond to you in the way you would like them too. This is a kind and confident lunar placement, but you find unkind behaviours hard to deal with. That may be especially so in romantic relationships. You may be clingy or needy, as romance may trigger latent – and not so latent – child-like dependency in you. You may seek attention or be demanding if you don’t get your own way. It is also an indulgent, uninhibited lunar placement. Don’t equate self-care with needless risk-taking.
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Moon in the Sixth House
The Moon in the sixth house tells you that you need an ordered life. You find comfort in routine – even if that routine is sometimes counter-productive; it’s your routine and that’s what matters to you. You may become distressed if your routine is changed; fortunately (after the initial upset) you are adaptable, because – instinctively – you know how to make any situation or circumstance work for you. Used positively, this can make you a great organiser. Unfortunately, it doesn’t stop you worrying about things – especially things over which you have no control. This is a lunar placement known for nervous energy and nervousness – and you’re easily stressed.
The smallest details or mundane activities can cause you stress if they’re not being dealt with according to plan. You set high standards for yourself – and everyone else. You are attached to perfectionism – maybe overly so – because it makes you feel secure. You need to do everything well and as efficiently as possible; in the worst cases that may lead to severe anxiety. So what can you do about it? A positive approach to self-care is essential; health, diet and exercise are important – but try and avoid being faddy with your food or proscriptive with your routines. Your routine needs to be as healthy as you would like to be.
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Moon in the Seventh House
This is an affectionate lunar placement, as the Moon in the seventh house seeks affection. You are drawn towards people who offer you protection, as the lunar urge to defend is projected onto other people – ultimately your life partner. The Moon pulls you towards the past, so partners may be familiar to you – in the sense that you may have met early in life, marry at a relatively young age, or your partner stimulate a sense of belonging in you that replicates your earlier familial experience. Taken to extremes, this lunar placement shows you may have dependency issues in relationships.
Dependency issues may work in several ways – either you or your partner may be dependent or eager to please – and that role may pass between you over time. The Moon here shows you are responsive to other people’s needs, particularly within a relationship. However, you may overlook your own needs, or you may assume your needs and your partners needs are one and the same, thus causing difficulties and misunderstandings. If that occurs, moodiness may be the result. Emotional reciprocity is an important issue. You may treat your partner as a parent – or if you find yourself being treated in the same way. Striving for equality may be preferable.
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Moon in the Eighth House
The Moon in the eighth house is emotionally intense and demanding. There is a deep need to be in control and this may present problems, both with your own emotional stability and in your relationships with other people. This is the house most associated with self-destruction and jealousy, envy and lack of trust may eat away at you if you’re not willing to acknowledge your own emotional vulnerability. It’s a defensive lunar placement, given to emotional extremes – your response to any difficult situation may be to blame or lash out – often violently – at someone else. This can be an emotionally abusive or domineering.lunar placement.
However, it need not be so. This is also the house of emotional transformation and your intuition works well when you use it to transform not just your own life – but those of other people too. You sense when things are wrong – badly wrong – and your comfort zone may be one of the least comfortable places imaginable. This is because you know what it is to suffer. This is an emotionally courageous Moon; some of you will experience deep hurt and pain, but this lunar placement marks you out as one of life’s great survivors. Your self-care needs will ensure you learn from past mistakes; your nurturing style is geared towards ensuring others can do the same.
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Moon in the Ninth house
With the Moon in the ninth house, your world view is a deeply subjective one. Your personal philosophy is likely to develop based on your own needs and whatever makes you feel secure in an uncertain world. Fortunately, security for you is a wide ranging concept; you are comfortable and are able to make yourself feel ‘at home’ in almost any place or situation. This lunar placement is receptive to change and stimulated by the prospect of new people, places and experiences. Your comfort zone is place of complete freedom where you’re able to explore all the world can offer you. This means you are rarely a ‘home bird’ in the conventional sense.
You may become distressed at any situation that makes you feel trapped. The urge to travel long distances may be overwhelming and you may feel most comfortable living in a country far from the place of your birth. The urge to travel is also satisfied by intellectual enquiry – and that may also take you far from your origins; travel takes many forms with this lunar placement, including into the realms of religion or ideology. You may take comfort in a belief system and your comfort zone may become the moral high ground. Preaching may become a form of emotional affirmation. More positively, the same effect may be obtained through teaching or mentoring.
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Moon in the Tenth House
The tenth house Moon is comfortable in the public realm, so it shows you are comfortable with success, authority, ambition and achievement. It’s a competitive lunar placement, but it can be emotionally difficult to handle. If your fail to achieve or obtain recognition for your efforts, it can be emotionally destabilising. It’s also a vulnerable position for the Moon, as it puts your emotional vulnerability on display. This lunar placement may attract criticism or adverse comment and that may be hard to deal with. Recognition brings brickbats as well as applause. The ‘right’ kind of recognition is a form of emotional affirmation, but you may become dependent on external validation.
To become comfortable in this lunar house requires emotional management. Be less concerned about how other people regard you and focus on achieving your own goals. That way your emotional validation comes from within. Internalising an externally oriented Moon is not an easy process, but it can be done; you are instinctively attuned to managing people and situations; you are the ‘sensible parent’ in many situations, as being ‘the adult in the room’ comes naturally to you. The Moon in this house influences your career – it may be hard to choose a definitive career, or your career may be changeable or unstable, so use your Moon sign to guide you on the right path.
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Moon in the Eleventh House
With an eleventh house Moon, you are friendly and crave the company of other people, to the extent you may feel uncomfortable on your own. Loneliness is emotionally injurious to you, so you often schedule your life so that you are rarely alone. However, being demanding is not your emotional style, you ensure your needs are met by being friendly, interesting, open and receptive to the needs of other people. If you can make life better for someone, it validates you emotionally – and that makes this an extremely sociable and tolerant lunar placement. You appreciate people who are themselves – and you rarely discriminate on any basis.
The only exception to that would be your attitude to those who hurt you or cause harm to those you love – however, that hurt may be displaced into a wider, more impersonal arena. The Moon’s role as caretaker is often projected onto social causes or helping those who are disadvantaged – it’s another form of emotional validation. You are instinctively humanist and humanitarian; you are uncomfortable with inequality at both a personal and social level. Your social conscience is often applied to your home life.; as a parent you may foster a spirit of independence and shared idealism in your children, as it’s something you are comfortable with.
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Moon in the Twelfth House
There is a pronounced need for moments of solitude with the Moon in the twelfth house. At best, you will respond to this urge by acknowledging it in moments of self-reflection, meditation or simply taking a quiet moment during your day as a form of spiritual practice. At its worst, you may withdraw emotionally or become emotionally unavailable. The twelfth house is a place of few boundaries, and as the Moon here makes you emotionally vulnerable, you may find it difficult to draw the line between your own needs and the needs of other people. You need to retreat to process any consequent emotional ‘invasion’.
You need to cultivate positive emotional expression to avoid being emotionally overwhelmed. Empathy is a gift, but you need to ensure you don’t lose yourself when giving out so much to others. There is a risk that you see yourself as a victim, and your passivity may lead to an absence of emotional anchorage; you may be your own worst enemy in that scenario. You may have a pronounced fear of loss or abandonment. On the positive side, this is a creative and imaginative lunar placement; your feel for romance, music, dance, colour and art may be highly intuitive. Your comfort zone may be transcendent or ‘other worldly’, but don’t lose sight of the earth.
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